Do you dread holiday parties? You're not alone. Many of us feel apprehensive about these situations. But these occasions represent opportunities to develop friendships and broaden our networks. Whether you realize it or not, networking happens all the time. Everyone learns technical skills required of their jobs, but not everyone places importance on conversational skills. The ability to talk easily with anyone is a learned skill, not a personality trait. Learning this will help you develop rapport with people and leave an impression that lasts longer than simply exchanging business cards.Here are 18 tips to improve your small-talk skills:1. Be the first to say "Hello!"2. Introduce yourself. Act as if you're the host and introduce new arrivals to your conversational partner or partners.3. Smile first and always shake hands when you meet anyone.4. Take your time during introductions! Make an extra effort to remember names, and use the names frequently in the conversation. 5. Maintain eye contact in any conversation. People don't feel listened to if you're not looking at them. 6. Get somebody to talk about why they're attending the event and you're on your way to engaging them in conversation.7. Show an interest in every person. The more interest you show, the more wise and attractive you become to others.8. Listen carefully for information that can keep the conversation going.9. People want to be with people who make them feel special, not people who are special. Take responsibility to help people you talk to feel as if they're the only person in the room. 10. Play the conversation game. When someone asks how you are doing, answer with more than "Okay." Tell more about yourself so that others can learn more about you.11. Do be careful with business acquaintances. You wouldn't want to open a conversation with: "How's your job at (fill in the blank)?" What if that person just got fired or laid off? Be careful when you're asking about an acquaintance's spouse or special friend: You could regret it.12. Don't act like an FBI agent. Questions like: "What do you do?" "Are you married?" "Do you have children?" and "Where are you from?" lead to dead-end conversations.13. Be aware of your body language. Nervous or ill-at-ease people make others uncomfortable. Act confident and comfortable, even when you're not.14. Be prepared. Spend a few minutes before an anticipated event preparing to talk easily about three topics. They will come in handy when you find yourself in the middle of an awkwardly silent moment.15. Show an interest in your conversational partner's opinion, too. You're not the only person who has opinions about the stock market, weather patterns, or what's wrong with kids today! 16. Stop conversation monopolists immediately. If possible, wait for the person to take a breath, then break in with a comment about the topic. Then lead the conversation in the direction in which you want it to go.17. Be prepared with exit lines. You do need to move around and meet others.18. But don't melt from conversations. Make a positive impression by shaking hands and saying goodbye as you leave. Every encounter involves risk. As long as you keep looking for new people to meet, and you show an interest in other people, you can make friends and enjoy lively conversations.